Maybe the real social network is the friends we convinced to move to Mastodon along the way.
@bigzaphod It‘s rough, but i‘ll keep on fighting to convince my friends 😅
@bigzaphod I haven’t managed to convince anyone but that’s probably because most of my friends had the good sense to leave the bad place long before I did. Obviously my friends are smarter than I am.
@bigzaphod when Twitterrific for Mastodon?!
@bigzaphod one of these days I’ll have my very own friend I convinced to come over here. I can dream.
@bigzaphod It seems like the “good” ppl are here on Mastodon now!!
@bigzaphod Todays day one of me on Mastodon.
@bigzaphod I swear if “Masterriffic” ever got built I would be SO happy 👀😕
@bigzaphod and the new ones me make here
@bigzaphod that’s a pinnable toot right there
@bigzaphod Sadly, so many didn't move, because it lacks user intuitive structure for the less technical less power users. Hoping the slew of new clients though changes that.
@bigzaphod now that's curation 😊

@bigzaphod

I have one friend for whom this applies, and I’m grateful for the company.

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@bigzaphod People have to realize we are in a reverse chronological feed and that is a different experience. We should have a, I don't know, a popular or most talked about feed. Something like that so that we can see some replies to a post.
@bigzaphod Maybe the real social network is the friends.
@bigzaphod sadly in my case the overlap is quite small. Some of the people who convinced me to move themselves seem to have backslid to Twitter, many others (who i thought of as real friends - ie, met them in person after meeting on Twitter) never left and bond feels broken. V happy with new friends here but nevertheless sad too, and thinking a lot about transient nature of friendships, identity etc.
@bigzaphod YES, and also: "Independence is a constant struggle, not a one time achievement. It is not something that can be grasped and held on to, but rather something that must be continually worked for and defended. But despite its difficulties, it is a goal worth striving for."
@bigzaphod Look, I'm just saying, if your friends aren't willing to follow you to another social network, were they really your friends?
@bigzaphod @simonharper that's a very good analogy and probably accurate!
@bigzaphod can you pls cw this :(
i was just scrolling through my TL and wasn't ready to see the wider fediverse and activitypub landscape referred to by a singular server implementation