The Anti-NSFW measures have gone a bit far...

So let me start off by saying that I recognize that there was initially a genuine problem with people who didn't want NSFW content being exposed to it.... #kbinMeta

https://kbin.social/m/kbinMeta/t/81113

The Anti-NSFW measures have gone a bit far... - /kbin meta - kbin.social

So let me start off by saying that I recognize that there was initially a genuine problem with people who didn't want NSFW content being exposed to it....

I don't think it went too far. Not exposing people accidentally to NSFW content takes priority over giving people a better experience consuming NSFW content. If you want to consume NSFW content head over to an instance that focuses on NSFW content. For example, lemmynsfw.com will fulfill all your NSFW needs.

That's the advantage of the fediverse, you can have different instances focusing on different types of content. And having the main sites of kbin.social or lemmy.world focus on Non-NSFW content will make the entire fediverse easier to advertise to the public.

Should be user's choice. Have it enabled by default, but with a possibility to turn it off.

Nope. Content is mirrored and hosted locally, so it's the admin's choice.

You can choose to use a different instsnce if you don't like what the admin's doing.

I don't get your reasoning. There's no downside to letting users choose.

And I find the 'love it or leave it' approach distasteful.
I generally like what the admin is doing, in large part because he listens to user feedback, which I was providing.
Of course you're entitled to your opinion.

You should become accustomed to having multiple accounts, ones for different instances, because this is the fediverse and essentially just semi-interlinked forums. If you want forum specific content that is generally considered spicy, go to that forum directly rather than complain that every other forum not handle your need for spicy content in an effective way for all parties.

This isnt some faceless megacorp. You are so used to one source for all your content due to reddit, but you should not expect one instance to provide you with all your desired content. Can you imagine how many man hours need to be put into effectively handling spicy content, across all instances? Or, you can just go to the spicy content forums.

Yes, there is a need for better handling multiple accounts seamlessly, its definitely under development in several apps. In the meantime it's just something to deal with.

Personally I'm very happy with no porn and gore. But I think loss of user agency is what made internet the hell it is now, and alternatives should keep it in mind.
Peertube does have some basic granularity: allow sensitive content or not, blur sensitive thumbnails or not.
It's work no doubt, but I doubt it's the Herculean task some make it out to be.
In the end it's for Ernest to decide, I see no problem in making suggestions one way the other. And I don't understand why you would.

For what it's worth, I haven't browsed reddit in years except for specific technical stuff, you may be assuming a little bit too much based on a single comment.