Am I making up fediverse drama? No... it's the Beehaw admins that are wrong

https://beehaw.org/post/617130

Am I making up fediverse drama? No... it's the Beehaw admins that are wrong - Beehaw

Alt text: > A three panel meme of someone riding a bike. > > * First panel: Someone riding on a bike. “Reddit is imploding, quick let’s get on Lemmy” > * Second panel: The bike starts to tip over on its own. “Oh shit there’s too many of us, we’re being defederated?” > * Third panel: They’ve fallen on the ground by the bike, holding their knee in pain. “Fucking Beehaw”

My initial Lemmy account is on another instance, and some reactions I have seen to Beehaw defederating it have me... Displeased. Maybe it's because I am an internet grandma who used to use three dozens phpbb forums at once, but protecting one's community is entirely fucking okay and the "snowflakes" talk is exhausting.
100% agree and I just can't understand why so many are going nuts over it the way they are. They're so reactionary and ridiculous it makes me wonder if they read the actual reasons why (or even understood them.)
I think past 10 years social media has been “grooming” the average internet user into becoming enraged at the slightest deviation from status quo and that’s what we’re seeing here. Rage means clicks means revenue for companies. Open internet doesn’t need revenue and doesn’t encourage rage.
People are used to absolute convenience but don't realize it always comes with consessions