I once mentioned that I - for my taste - have to use the 🫂 emoji too often.

Promptly someone said: so you think, the trans community is too whiny?!?

No, my sweet baby jesus. I think too many people I know or follow are in bad situations, conditions or living through bad times.

I want them to be safe and as happy as possible, so I don't HAVE to use the 🫂 so often.

@sashag to jump to that conclusion is wild.

folks go through bad situations all the time, so i dont think you could use that emoji "too" much

@somarasu Yes, exactly. We can talk about if it is a too shallow, performative thing (yes, sometimes it is when someone knew very well what to do that actually would help).

My phrase was more about a wish I had.