Is it just me? - sh.itjust.works

so far I've experienced a ton of whataboutism and really sus views/devils advocate type shit on here (lemme.ml) that makes me not want to browse. is there a better alternative that's not saying "why can't we all just have our own opinion ❤️🌈" on shit like genocide and anti LGBT culture
so many more instances, back when these were ISPs people would change to save a dollar, now that its free social media people are trapped?
I'm not sure what you're saying here?
Beehaw has a strict no hate speech policy and the mods aren’t afraid to put their foot down when people are sort of toeing the line about being a terrible person. That’s my instance and I’m very proud of it and it’s mod team. Sounds like it would be a good fit for you, too. Also, even if you don’t get an account there, you may be happy hanging out on the communities they host. Here’s a link to the mods describing their philosophy. https://beehaw.org/post/107014
you're the second person to recommend beehaw! I'll switch over !! thank you ☺️
Absolutely not. But I must say that I don't miss the toxicity at all. Being on the (liberal?) Fediverse has done wonders for my mental health. There's little tolerance for bullshittery and that helps foster a stronger sense of real community for a greater cause in my mind.
Also there is (as of now) still far less shitposts and low effort commentary. I definitely won't miss the endless circlejerking either.
I don't think it's even necessarily all the same political alignment, so much as it is that we're all united against Reddit and this corporate tomfoolery right now. It won't last forever, but in being united for a common cause, we've sort of achieved world peace lol. I'm a libertarian. I've seen us, republicans, democrats, liberals, conservatives, socialists, and everything in between uniting to discuss technology, bash Reddit, and work to build back our global communication forums. This is the progress in humanity that the internet's creators envisioned. This is unity and peace. It won't last forever, but if we can at least continue to respect each other (while holding different opinions), unite against those who show no respect or dignity, and continue to rebuild together, we have in my opinion bettered humanity for years, hopefully generations to come. Even expecting that this platform won't last forever - none ever will - we have learned through this to not take our open forum and free discussion for granted.
As long as you don't go into any post regarding the Ukraine war...

…for now.

Once you get critical mass it’s a race to the dumbest post.

this is why small instances ppl
I am trying to get there, but so far I don't seem to be dumb enough. Please kick me when I make it.
I'm sorry, I'll try to be more violent.
This is the spirit!
Yeah, for now...
heh that’s a good one
Enjoy it while it lasts. It probably isn't gonna be like this when more refugees have arrived.
federation makes the possibility of a sane lemmy experience much more real. we can all slink off to our own quiet (but still tightly on-topic) "slices/sublems/whatever" when the insane ones get too much. federation is the killer app.