If there's one lesson I could get all the nice liberals to take from the last few months, it's that being even a little bit supportive of marginalized people will cause the worst people in the world to self select out of your spaces. They'll do it loudly and try to make it maximally uncomfortable for the nice liberals, but then they'll be gone and your spaces will be so much nicer.
@jenniferplusplus The converse is also true. When the nice liberals choose to avoid conflict and stay quiet when the worst people harass marginalised people, it's the marginased people who leave and you're left with an incredibly toxic and horrible space