History shows that patriarchy is not natural, nor does it begin with fathers in families. According to Angela Saini, author of the new book THE PATRIARCHS, patriarchy begins with state power, and slowly works its way into families. In addition, men did not gain power over women by being "stronger." They did it by setting up networks of political support -- and by systematically dismantling support for women. This recent LSE lecture from Saini is a fascinating listen. https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/patriarchy-where-did-it-all-begin/id279428154?i=1000614580804
@annaleen Thank you for the tipp! There are so many false assumptions about the past. It's always cool to learn how complex the world is.
That is also what David Graeber wrote in "Beginnings": before there were nation states, people were able to leave communities if they didn't like how they were treated.