In a Committed Relationship?

1. God First

2.Communication

3. Compromise

4. The person you are with should be more important to you than your friends. Disconnection from your partner allows other things and people to come into your life that don't need to be there.

5. Trust. Examples...Your partner should have access to passwords. Trust comes when the other person doesn't feel like they are hiding something.

I am sure there are a ton more things, and feel free to add them in the comments.