So the new Instagram text thing is reported to have ActivityPub support and instead of being happy at all the new labor that could potentially be coming to the standard, Mastodon people are now actively encouraging instances to not federate with any of that stuff. K.
Look, instance admins can block whatever they want for any reason they want. It hurts your users but do you. And I'm not trying to argue that Facebook isn't a fucked up company. But actively working to discourage extremely skilled participants (and love them for hate them, FB engineers are VERY good) from contributing or associating with your open source protocol or community is just peak stupidity for people who claim in the same breath to want to remake and reset the social web.

@film_girl Facebook: *enables Trump, Rohingya genocide, etc.*

Mastodon admins: "Some of us would like to not associate with this company."

US tech media: "Won't someone think of the poor Facebook engineers!"

I fucking hate this timeline.

@thomholwerda so don't federate them if you want -- fine! But then don't bitch and moan that no one uses your protocol or services.

@film_girl I think the point that a lot of - especially Americans, for some reason - don't seem to get is that a lot of people would rather have a smaller social network but with fewer horrible people than a bigger social network but with way more horrible people.

We let the corporations try social media, and they all fucked up. Every single one of them. Why are so many of you so desperate to keep repeating the same mistakes?

@thomholwerda I think that is completely and totally fine. But then don't call it an open standard, one, if you're going to gatekeep and pitch fits over anyone who uses it (and this goes for all OSS btw, it's open or it isn’t, things. Things like the ethical source movement are not open and I wish they'd at least lean into that), and two, if you want it small, don't complain when it is small.
@thomholwerda I have zero problem with any administrator or user choosing who they want to federate with or not. I have zero problem with anyone wanting to have smaller, more controlled, more moderated social networks. But I do have a problem with preaching the virtues of openness (but then controlling who can use something and how) and bitching that the rest of the world won't come over to your worldview, when you're deliberately trying to keep people out.

@film_girl
There are multiple virtues in play here. Consider that I boycott #Microsoft for 50+ reasons. Let’s say MS wants to do something good & they make changes so 5 of the reasons I boycott them go away. Well I’m still boycotting MS for 45+ other reasons. FB, #Cloudflare, MS, #Amazon, Twitter, etc, are socially detrimental & abuse the data they get their hands on to the full extent possible.

@thomholwerda

@koherecoWatchdog @thomholwerda and that’s perfectly fine, imho. Your money, your time, your attention. My friend Kashmir tried to do those boycotts and it is sadly impossible for most of us no matter what we want to do, but that’s a position that I find reasonable. What I don’t find reasonable is complaining that no one will come to your party but then denying entry to every guest who shows up. Esp. if you threw a tantrum last week when learning someone else was having a party on the same day
@film_girl @koherecoWatchdog Again, I have yet to see people complain that Mastodon is too small - except for media personalities who fled Twitter. Your premise here seems flawed.
@thomholwerda @koherecoWatchdog I don’t think that’s a fair framing of a lot of users (and to be clear, I’m not talking about former-blue checks and media personalities like myself, I’m talking about regular users) complaints about Mastodon. It isn’t about size as in user number, it’s about the diversity of types of people on the platform and finding people. For a certain type of user, myself included, there’s a ton of people here for us. But that isn’t universal at all.

@film_girl @koherecoWatchdog Yeah, the lack of PoC is problematic.

Aside from racism, which of course exists on Mastodon as it does anywhere else, there is also the fact that Mastodon is European, and the number of black folks in Europe is only a fraction of that of the US (and 50% of black Europeans are French). This must have some sort of influence. I would love to be able to see if Mastodon represents EU population quite well, but not the US one.

@thomholwerda @koherecoWatchdog it probably does represent Europe more than the US or the global number, but that’s just a gut feeling since there is no way to check that by design.You say Mastodon is European, but it’s Mastodon GmbH that is European, the software is supposed to be global, right? If the fire team wants to project that it is a Euro-driven project and that that is the world view that shapes it, that’s fine. But they should probably make that really clear.
@film_girl @koherecoWatchdog No I just mean because it's European it's going to have a more European user base. I would love for Mastodon to draw in more Americans (I fucking love Americans, and we Europeans could learn a lot from American openness and friendliness), but it seems unreasonable to demand an open source social network to acquiesce to American sensibilities overnight.
@thomholwerda @koherecoWatchdog oh, for sure and to be clear, I’m not trying to say that it should. I just think that it isn’t so much an American presence that might be lacking (I see plenty of America on my feed) but a lacking of anything that isn’t white western world (that is largely English speaking).

@film_girl @koherecoWatchdog At least we can agree Mastodon is very, very gay. So many LGBTQ people here who feel very safe and happy to express themselves. This makes me think there isn't an aversion to diversity here, just a lack of understanding among Europeans of the kind of deep-rooted, more institutional racism black Americans face (as evidenced by white people calling for trigger warnings on stories about racism, which is just dumb).

But man is Mastodon gay. Warms my straight cis heart.

@thomholwerda @koherecoWatchdog yes, absolutely. That’s been the best part to me about both Mastodon and Bluesky. Extremely, extremely gay. And that’s fantastic. Because if you start out with those voices represented, that becomes part of the culture and attempts to criticize that or denigrate that isn’t going to work. Because all of us will fight back.
@thomholwerda @koherecoWatchdog Anyway, it’s almost 2am here so I’m off to bed. Thanks for the nice chat.