@paulisci I think what has happened is that for most of human history there was a need for the strong male to plow the fields or hunt and defend the home etc. and the smart female to pass wisdom and care for the family. Even then though a strong female would have an advantage.
With modern technology in the past centuries this has become a non-issue for most families and individuals. There is no need for traditional roles, so there should be no stigma for which life a person wishes to fulfil.