I swear I'm not trying to ignore anyone.
@TheLetterTen *offers hugs to bring down your whelm levels* 
@TheLetterTen This is me but also when anybody else understandably have the same problem I'm like "clearly they hate me and I have wronged them in some non-specific way, let me examine all of our interactions for the last decade to figure out what"
@TheLetterTen
I am!
I'm writing the same book, except
Replace *I'M JUST OVERWHELMED*
with *I JUST DON'T CARE*

@TheLetterTen: I got disowned by a sibling because dysphoric depression and ADHD are apparently not good reasons for failing to send random text messages or plan small-talk trips hours away from home.

Her reacting to this failing by choosing abandon me on purpose, however, is apparently a-okay with everyone else.

@TheLetterTen

ok,

but... you had enough time to write a big ol' book.

@TheLetterTen That needs to be my email auto reply.
@TheLetterTen One person being overwhelmed, the other person having Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria. Perfect combo.