Criticizing mastodon continues to be the least fun thing to do on mastodon.
Y’all realize that accepting criticism and mining it for good ideas is just what you have to do when you run community projects, right? And that lack of criticism means you’re failing, because people don’t criticize things they’ve given up on, right?
@fraying yes, we realize this because a hundred people before you have already voiced this exact same "insight". most communities aren't lacking in ideas or feedback, they're lacking in labor. complaining doesn't fix that. like you point out in your first post, it just makes things worse. and yet you went ahead and did it anyway 🙄
@colin you missed my point completely.
@fraying i think i got your point: criticism is good, no matter how delivered and even if unrequested. it’s up to the receiver to sift the wisdom from the shit and then resolve the source of that criticism themselves. my critique here, in your words, is a “fucking gift” and you should say “thank you”.

honestly i’m not trying to caricature you. read back through your thread and judge if the above is a reasonable interpretation. i’m pretty much just exercising the advise you’re giving, against you, to see if you still believe in it when on the receiving end.

@colin

If you understood his point, think for a moment about the part where people stop caring enough to even offer a critique.

@zota to be exceedingly clear, the moment @fraying and i quit critiquing each other is the point at which we can each enjoy the space of our own communities: right?

that if you know a critique isn’t going to be well-received (as, literally, Derek announced in advance), it’s perfectly acceptable to just go a different way: to let that community project do what you think is a mistake, and instead more actively engage with some other community project that you agree with more. that quite often leaving be and building something new is a better gift than “critiquing” that the thing other people have built for themselves is a poor fit for you.