In the last few months I’ve received 4 speaking invites:
•One to speak on the Black American experience—I said no & referred a Black scholar
•One to speak on Iranian women—I said no & referred several Iranian women
•One to speak on Arab American students—I said no & referred an Arab woman & activist
•One to speak on my experience in Turkey providing earthquake relief, on a panel with a Turkish scholar—I said yes

Lesson: You don’t need to be a voice for the voiceless—just learn to pass the mic.

@QasimRashid Thank you! I remember posting something similar on Facebook some 10-12 years ago, asking men to consider sharing the stage if they notice they're being booked on an all-male panel discussion, for example. And everyone had a freakout about that. It was awful and was part of why I left Facebook. Glad to see people are making this transition to a world where expertise is best shared among many demographics.