Behind every kinkster every so often I see the "protect the billionaire, less taxes" or "less government spending" mindset which is weird because the people in danger of being jobless or homeless are queer folk.
If anything you should be staunchly in favor of helping the needy.
You have 999 million more in common with a transient than with a billionaire.
First of all, please excuse if i am a bit lost on the line between #BDSM and #Kink
My experience from my attempts to find a place in "the scene", expically locally here in Bavaria, looks like that "the scene" is totally a place defined by and events run to the rules of "normal" binary heteronormative couples.
@Redan @unawarelatex
Espically the thing of "we want equal gender ratio" meaning that every male should be together with a matching female. Because single males are inherently seen as potentially going around and begging every female for sex and unwanted.
So every person who appear like a single male has to pay a gender based punishement price or is not allowed at all.
Personal example: the Latex Halloween Party in Nuremburg https://www.latexzentrale.com/index.php/forum.html?bid=forum&do=show&what=start&id=18116&seen=5789&forum=22&ant=18&tid=0&ab=0&lid=5&list=session
So your view of "every kinkster" might be heavily biased to see the conservative heteronormative Kinksters because they are the ones who have the privilege to go to events and be visible.
Those who are single, gay or queer, perhaps also autistic, might be an very different groups with little overlap, beeing invisible
@crazy_pony @Redan straight kink events do hit different than queer ones (and yes the straight men on women toxicity sucks)
But queer kinksters can still be rich dicks when you peel back the covers.
I did not misspeak on kink vs BDSM. Or on queer vs straight spaces. It exists in all of them, from personal experience.
@unawarelatex @Redan
> (and yes the straight men on women toxicity sucks)
completely agreed
> But queer kinksters can still be rich dicks when you peel back the covers.
Perhaps my "bubble" is different, i dont know anyone like this
People i see are either nice warmhearted peaqceful queers who are a social failure and fight to survive, or cishet with privileges for a successful life and the options to be elitist, dickhead and such
As a personal queation, do you know queer kink events in Germany/Bavaria? I seem to find ever only these heteronormative ones
Rubber Lexi
Redan
Crazy Pony