Just found out that my ex-girlfriend cheated on me when we were together in 2022. The fuck..
My last two girlfriends cheated on me... I guess I'm just not good enough for anyone. 😞
@TheLetterTen their behaviour is on them, not you ❤️
@TheLetterTen that’s not how it works. Them doing it reflects on them, not you
@TheLetterTen they're cheaters... All this means is they weren't good enough for you.
@TheLetterTen @KaidaFox fuck these stupid idiot asshat crack whore sluts
@TheLetterTen No,that behaviour is on them and shouldn't reflect on you in any way
@TheLetterTen Guess again, they were shit people. You deserve better
@TheLetterTen That's the depression talking. They obviously weren't right for you, but that doesn't mean that nobody is. It was their mistake to cheat on you, and you did nothing to deserve it.

@TheLetterTen I hope it's ok that I slide into the replies •snap• again. It sucks big time! But it also seems like your thought pattern is something called "catastrophic thinking".

Here is a reasonable PDF on the subject: https://www.mhinnovation.net/sites/default/files/downloads/organisation/catastrophic_thinking_and_how_to_stop.pdf

@TheLetterTen

Cheating is never, EVER the fault of the person being cheated on. Cheating is always the fault of the person too selfish or cowardly to do the decent thing and talk.

I have never been cheated on that I know of (yay being aro ace I guess) but several people I love dearly have been and it always makes me absolutely livid! Especially because those people are absolute sweethearts who are as loyal and loving as they come.

It's not your fault. It's truly not, and fuck both of those women for making you feel like it was.

@TheLetterTen Sounds more like you're too good for them.