If someone kindly asks you to wear a mask around them and you say No, that’s pretty profoundly fucked up.

Here’s why: Whenever someone clearly tells you how you can make them comfortable around you, that’s a gift. Whether it’s how to pronounce their name, what their pronouns are, or any other way to make someone feel safe, it’s the kind thing to do.

Be kind.

@rmondello This is on point.

It is a gift, because they could have chosen just to avoid you instead. How many people complain about ghosting, but ignore or get upset when someone tells them how to improve their relationship (and yes, ghosting and relationship both imply romantic but I mean human interactions generally).