Lets say being "woke" isn't complete bull shit. No we're not all born Angela Davis but that don't excuse your shitty behavior and the things you say. In 10th grade I used to say some pretty horrid transphobic things, not accident but rather out of ignorance. Those thoughts aren't what's in my mind and heart now, I've changed. However if someone who knew me from that time disliked me for it and continues to dislike me to this very day, that's fair. Marginalized people don't owe anyone forgiveness