@michellepostoncombs When the NQ-mum married my dad, it was her third marriage. It was a common source of humour between the three of us but in no way did my dad or I think three marriages reflected badly on her. My grandmother - my dad’s mum - was very judgemental about it (and got in digs again when he died) while my mum’s parents were thrilled he’d found someone new after a long time on his own. I’m sorry people are such weirdly narrow-minded SCHITTEHEADS.