My daughter told me today she no longer tidies her room, instead she 'resets' it to tidy each Sunday for the week ahead . She said mentally this helps because tidy sounds such a chore while reset doesn't, and the thought that there's a weekly reset means she doesn't feel bad if the room gets messy in the week, because she'll reset on Sunday!
Anyway I thought it was cute and might be useful for someone

@Tattooed_mummy

That's an excellent example of mentally reframing an issue.

When housework is framed as "something only women do", that person is set up for their 1st divorce

When chores are framed as "something only menials do", that person faces a rage-filled future where the so-called "menials" refuse to fit the white supremacy narrative

When domestic labor is framed as "unpaid", that person faces a workplace where staff quit after they're asked to "take notes" or "fetch coffee"