MissNerdNote for the future: Never ask the wider Mastadon population about kink dating apps cause you want to find a Dom. It doesn't go well for responses, or your followers list
Triss@MissNerd
"Just use fetlife"
One of the reasons I /don't/ use fet that much is because people use it like a dating site, and not as social media. 🙄
Sometimes I feel like it just encourages the gross messages because of it being kink focused