“You haven't had #COVID19? You're lucky!”

My “luck”:
Two concerts, two movies in theaters & one conference in three years (all masked).
I haven't eaten in a reasonably crowded restaurant in three months.
I've worn a mask 100% of the time in airports, planes, transit & retail.
I've eaten outside on 50F/10C evenings to avoid inside dining.
I got every jab as soon as possible.
I've monitored COVID conditions and adjusted behaviors to match.
I canceled 2 vacations due to COVID surges.
“LUCK!”

@augieray in re: your checklist

No concerts, movies, theater, restaurant dining, or public outing for three years

I order my groceries online and pick up from an outdoor location, while remaining in my truck

Doctor appointments only exception, and these are video conference when feasible

I'm behind on jabs, I need the bivalent booster, but haven't been able to work out how to manage it.

My across the creek and down the road neighbor, who occasionally does work for me, called last night. He and his wife both tested positive and are symptomatic.

I'm terrified I've been exposed.

@caragraph @augieray Are you having issues about finding the bivalent booster?

@OldAndCranky @augieray no, I get medical care through the VA, but I'm an hour away from the hospital.

When I got the second vaccine, I had a bad reaction and ended up in the ER for half the day. I had a caregiver then so it worked out, but I don't have one now.

I can't quite figure out how to get from here, where I thought I was safely cocooned, to there-- and safely back

@caragraph @augieray Oh man, that's terrible. Did you have an allergic reaction or just a strong immune reaction?

@OldAndCranky @augieray probably safe to say the latter. I'm not a candidate for the flu vaccine because I always get ill from it.

I really thought my half hermit lifestyle would keep me safe!

@caragraph @augieray I never had a reaction to the flu shot until I started getting the super duper old peoples' flu shot. Yiikes! I reacted to all five covid shots, but it was just being achy and tired for a few hours.
@OldAndCranky @caragraph It may be little comfort to you, Caragraph, given the severity of the reaction, but I did see a study a month or two ago that suggested the stronger one reacts to the vaccine, the better the protection. (I can't find that now, however.)
@augieray @caragraph I do believe that is the rule of thumb. I actually worry because my spouse has virtually no reaction to vaccines ( except the shingles one, which I'm actually *scared* of- and I am generally medically fearless- I mean if he was uncomfortable I'll be a mess!).
@OldAndCranky @augieray I had chicken pox as a child so I think I have that immunity? I need to read more!
@caragraph No, they still recommend the shingles vaccine once you're in your 50s or so. Because the virus lives in your neurons and can come back into play.
@acm_redfox @caragraph exactly. Having had chicken pox is why you need the shingles vaccination. Funny thing, when my older daughter was 2 my husband had a shingles outbreak (it was during a stressful time) and my daughter caught chicken pox from him! Those were in the days before the chicken pox vaccine.
@OldAndCranky Ugh, when I was shopping for a wedding dress, I apparently had an outbreak I didn't recognize and infected my only never-had-chickenpox friend (and who knows what other brides). At least she knew and insisted on retrovirals at first pok!
@acm_redfox Oh dear! I am wondering how she managed to avoid chicken pox up till then! I remember having a hell of a case when I was a kid-both my kids had it (both before the vaccine was available) all ten of my nieces and nephews etc.
@OldAndCranky Yeah, I don't know. When I was in kindergarten, a mom knowingly sent her kid to school with chickenpox so we'd all get it and be done. (Other parents were glad!) Guess she had more boring neighbors?
@acm_redfox I remember Chicken pox parties... Seriously. People who had a kid with cp would invite others who hadn't gotten it yet so that everyone would get it over with. I'm not certain if that's urban legend, but I think it's not.
@OldAndCranky For surel it's just an itchy pesk at 5, and gets much more serious by adulthood, so in the absence of a vaccine, that was a reasonable solution.
@acm_redfox One of my nieces had a really bad case- (I became an aunt at a very young age so this was like 50 years ago), and ended up in the hospital with a secondary infection! Its the story I liked to tell anti vaxxers (before Covid- now I've got a few stories). She has scarring from it.
@OldAndCranky @acm_redfox Pox parties absolutely were a thing when I was a kid. I’m grateful my own kid can get a vaccine instead and avoid that misery.
@shawrd773 @acm_redfox yeah. my poor niece ended up in the hospital with it many many years ago.