I got my first "you should put this behind a CW" today!
@phillip
Told you...Nextdoor vibes from some of these folks. You keep doing you.
@onlymeindc hahah you surely did!

As I was saying to
@ThatAuntie it amazes me how these people who we are not in community with can come and try to police our online bodies. I know I'm a JOYFUL person and they think that adding a "please don't get offended" at the beginning that I will be agreeable but NOPE! It is offensive, especially when they don't know me, my intersections, what traumas I have resolved, etc. This person had the nerve to say "it's tradition" on here to use a CW... Hahahah people love to use that word. I don't celebrate any American holidays nor follow any of these "oppressive" traditions. But they would know that if they were in community with me lol. But I digress.

But same with you, thank you for being in community with me in this here Fediverse and making my time here enjoyable!

If you or
@ThatAuntie or anyone else I am in community with & respect pulls me to the side for being outta hand, then that's when I'll evaluate my life's choices! πŸ€£πŸ’ž
@phillip @onlymeindc @ThatAuntie what the heck happened? I stepped out to run errands and see the that you were asked to do a CW!! What could you possibly have posted in that short period of time I was away???
@fulanigirl @phillip @onlymeindc
LORDT!!!!!!!!! Fulanigirl done jerned the convo. 😭 School's in for the Content Wrapper of the Year.
*Sitting in my Ms. Celie chair.
@ThatAuntie @fulanigirl @phillip @onlymeindc do yall want a link to thread where krusty kolonizers were concern trolling presently lol cuz it never ends
@1P1P1D @ThatAuntie @phillip @onlymeindc Not the link thanks but if folks are being trolled a list to the admins would be appropriate.

@fulanigirl @ThatAuntie @phillip @onlymeindc I mean its me. Im getting concern trolled (which is qualitatively different than just trolling, but is policing blacc folk in our language.

Long story short
"I know you didn't mean that to be a taunt - to the contrary but the material reality is just that because there is no " safe way" to be an African person under colonial capitalism"

was seen as an "attack" naturally I was assured by said bottle of ranch that "I get it".

@fulanigirl @ThatAuntie @phillip @onlymeindc When I said ayo here's a book reference he kept being ridiculous, call me angry, saying that its mastodon so I should be nice.

It was on the young homie Jaden's account.

@1P1P1D @fulanigirl @ThatAuntie @phillip @onlymeindc

Wait that's you, @1P1P1D β€” painting yourself as cool and all that?

You barged into my mentions calling for MY PEOPLE TO DIE, totally unprovoked.

How are you doing mate? Feeling smug, are you dear?

@admin you have come back from holidays, and not reacted, so you're like that too?

@1P1P1D @fulanigirl @ThatAuntie @phillip @onlymeindc @admin

You'll be happy to know my love @1P1P1D that few of them did die today.

As you like, a good missile hit the building and they perished.

Did you watch the videos where they scream for help from the rubble, my beloved @1P1P1D?

Please do watch, you'll enjoy.

@1P1P1D @fulanigirl @ThatAuntie @phillip @onlymeindc @admin

You call them Nazis, my friend @1P1P1D

The folks who were in their apartments in Sunday, you called them Nazis.

And you have no shame coming talking about trolls? Good form, @1P1P1D

Come say it here, show your friends.

The lady that survived by wild chance in the middle of the rubble, saved by the bathtub. She is Nazi you said?

Show yourself

@486timetable @1P1P1D @fulanigirl @phillip @onlymeindc @admin
This sounds very hurtful and a lot. I don't know the story of you all's dynamic- it seems complicated, but here's what:

I believe in the power of deconstruction, not destruction, so everyone can make a choice about how to be in community with me. Or not. It's blessings on blessings as a rule for me either way, good people. πŸ™πŸΎπŸ’ž

(This is a whole-ass statement, not an invitation.)

@ThatAuntie @486timetable @1P1P1D @fulanigirl @onlymeindc @admin

Everything
@ThatAuntie said! This was a lot. I've had nice interactions with the both of you 1P & 486, so I can't speak on what interactions you two have had. But this is above my pay grade and it's probably best that you 2 block each other.

And as ThatAuntie also articulated this is not an invitation. As always, sending love to ALL my people in the struggle. But let us not intentionally inflict harm on one another.
#AllLove
@phillip
A bit unfair to yank us a situation with clearly more background to it on this thread that wasn't talking about it and with heat coming out of nowhere among people not involved in prior interactions. I'm not volunteering to mediate but I would appreciate not being hijacked into conversations I know nothing about and among people who should be talking directly or blocking each other.
@fulanigirl @admin @ThatAuntie @1P1P1D @486timetable
@onlymeindc @phillip @admin @ThatAuntie @1P1P1D @486timetable
I'm sure the yank was unintentional - looking at from the most positive side - but it's a good reminder that we should all be careful how and when we pull others from our group into a convo. Mileage can vary on capacity for emotional engagement.

@fulanigirl @onlymeindc @phillip @admin @ThatAuntie @1P1P1D

#AWKWARD

Folks β€” you shamed me 😳

I'm so sorry your friendly chat with rape apologist got ruined.

Let's pretend it never happened, and be besties! ☺️

@fulanigirl @onlymeindc @phillip @admin @ThatAuntie @1P1P1D

See when I post shit like this, it obviously need a CW

Only natural that @1P1P1D comes and protests. It's just a matter of misunderstanding.

Nazis not Nazis, I mean it's just a word why did I get so worked up? Sorry about yanking, you just wanted to relax and not deal with your nasty pig friend!

@fulanigirl @onlymeindc @phillip @admin @ThatAuntie @1P1P1D

It's just as you all kindly suggested, whenever we see someone using heinous racist language, we should just block the Hotep and keep walking.

So what if somebody laugh and chat with a genocide apologist, maybe you all chose ignorance. I should have respected it.

@486timetable @fulanigirl @onlymeindc @admin @ThatAuntie @1P1P1D

Bro for reals? You're talking like we had any indication of the conversation that you and him had. We were having our own conversation that he entered. Second of all don't tell me who my "friends" are. I don't know that man just like I don't know you. And up until this point we have all had respectful chats with each other. Whatever beef you and him have is between you and him. He is not the representative for all black people. Nor is he a representative for us. And since we were not privy to anything that he said, all this energy that you given is unwarranted! So take me outta y'all shit! Be blessed.
@486timetable
First all, I don't know you. I don't know him. I am not about to be psychologically manipulated with bombastic, sarcastic, and manipulating language and tactics. This is now trolling and deserves my block. I am not about to put up with bullshit on social media. I have enjoyed some of the stuff I have seen from you, but you will not be manipulating me to do what you want me to do. So I'm done with all of this with you.
@fulanigirl @phillip @admin @ThatAuntie @1P1P1D