The problem with these dudes is they believe sex is degrading for women. Sex is about power and domination and they only see women getting sex done to them.
@Ask_aubry The idea that we might like it, even seek it out or instigate it (although not with them, obviously) would terrify them if they were able to accept it.
@Ask_aubry Also, his comment shows disgust with himself and his own sexuality, and that he cannot imagine it as something positive. Combine with macho cult of toughness and violence and ban on self reflection and vulnerability for a toxic brew.