I have often gone up to the hottest guy (according to my opinion) in the bar and started conversation.

Not because I’m majorly confident, but because for years I would feel like those people were way out of my league.

What I’ve discovered is that even the hottest guy in the club may be battling with the confidence to mix and mingle.

This change in behavior may spark a cool conversation, a “No thank you, not interested,” or the best piece of ass you’ve ever had.