Since being laid off from Twitter, a lot of folks have suggested I write a book. It makes sense given my career and experiences, not just Twitter, but in applied responsible AI.

What they don’t know is I’ve been fiddling with a proposal for years and have backed off from four different agencies because of the deeply ingrained stereotypes that exist of what books are expected of someone like me 1/

First, what is “someone like me”? Hyper educated, liberal, woman, minority, child of immigrants, worked in tech, held a management position.

Let’s break down the feedback I hear. First, it’s “accessibility” - people love smart women as long as they don’t sound smart. People love minorities in power as long as we don’t sound too authoritative.

I get feedback that introducing new concepts and using words like “sociotechnical” is not accessible if I’m not writing an academic book (I’m not) 2/

I make it clear in my proposal that the book I’ll spend my time on is more akin to the impact of Kahneman or Gladwell or Dawkins or Harari (even if I don’t nec like all of them as humans). This is where the “hyper educated” part becomes a liability. I don’t have it in me to write a cute pop tech book.

I guarantee you if people don’t understand a word in their proposals they assume the problem isn’t the author.
3/

Next is “not enough of me.” I understand that I am old and boring and don’t have a constant need to share my lived experience as evidence.

I also notice a trend of trauma voyeurism where women and POC are expected to lay their worst experiences bare for public consumption and evaluation. No fucking thank you.

Of course, where I worked and what I did is interesting as an anecdote or demonstration of first hand expertise. But that’s not what they want is it?
4/

In all of these experiences (four totally different agencies, some of which directly support WOC authors) I have backed off because I notice the same harmful stereotypes of women and POC that I don’t want to be a part of:
- be smart but not too smart.
- don’t be too authoritative, it intimidates others.
- the phoenix from the ashes story, because minorities and especially women are only great if some major trauma happens to them first 5/
- you aren’t a human being, you’re an object for consumption and evaluation
- your degrees and achievements matter for DEI optics but don’t lend you real authority 6/
I struggled with this a lot, and this is why I’m sharing my feelings. There’s nothing wrong with writing a pop culture book on tech or business management, or an academic book; it’s just sad that those of us who don’t want to are pressured out of the boys club and redirected to the more “acceptable” outlets. /end
@ruchowdh Seriously, this thread sounds like the perfect preface to the book. I'd read and buy for friends.
@ruchowdh just write the truth and you’re way way way way better than Harari Gladwell et al so no need for those comps!