If someone you're with is wearing a mask, don't ask if they want you to wear one, too. Just put one on.

Masks have become contentious and it's really uncomfortable to be on the side of asking someone to mask. Don't put someone in the position of feeling like they have to give you their personal health history to rationalize their request. Just put a fucking mask on.

#MaskUp #CovidIsAirborne

@Nickittynic
I agree with nearly everything you said, and most importantly, that core message:

WEAR A MASK...

However, I'd suggest that "masks have become contentious" is far too polite. Masks have been deliberately *made* contentious by people whose intentions have nothing to do with public health and everything to do with private wealth. There isn't any public good involved.

Secondly, by mentioning "personal health history", you're (perhaps unconsciously) buying in to the premise that fit, young, healthy people don't have any reason to wear a mask. The Covid infection and death figures, the plight of hospitals around the world is why *everyone* should wear a mask until we sort this out. As many people have pointed out, wearing a mask is as much a gesture of goodwill as it is any statement about your personal health situation.

The only people pushing propaganda that "it's over" or "it's the flu" are people who won't get it and who are profiting from it, or who've bought the selfishness propaganda and mindlessly repeat it.

We're social animals. Our entire existence is premised on society; we wouldn't last a year alone in the jungle (and idiots who reply "*I* would" are just the same people who'll push children aside in the rush for the lifeboats). Society is made up equally of rights and obligations, and for those of you not wearing a mask it's simply a statement that, for you, there are only rights but no obligations. You're a (possibly unconscious) sociopath.

@infinite8horizon Yup! I agree with everything you said, except the part that I might be buying into the premise that young, fit, healthy people may not have a reason to mask. I only mentioned personal health history because I was referring to my own situation. But as someone who has had dysautonomia for over 12 years, after a common gastrointestinal virus, I've been banging my head against the wall trying to get people to understand this risk since before we even knew Long COVID was such a prevalent thing!
@Nickittynic Sure; I expect that, of current habitual mask wearers, those with a personal vested interest outweigh the purely pro-social, but it's precisely that anti-social apathy that's going to persevere unless the narrative changes.
As someone who never goes out the door without an N95 (P2, whatever) on, I'm also in the category with a vested interest, but I like to think I'd do it given my not-very-difficult understanding of the simple dynamics of transmission and infection...
All we can do is to keep leaning on politicians and "public" health authorities (who are, unfortunately, politicians by the time they reach positions of influence).