This post from Tumblr's Ghostonly is the best social media advice I've ever read:

How to have a good internet experience in 8 easy steps

https://www.tumblr.com/ghostonly/667966959023996928/how-to-have-a-good-internet-experience-in-8-easy

How to have a good internet experience in 8 easy steps

#1 - Stop having a bad faith interpretation of every thing you read If you think something someone said might have been something you disagree with, instead of starting an argument, ask them to clar…

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#1 - Stop having a bad faith interpretation of every thing you read

If you think something someone said might have been something you disagree with, instead of starting an argument, ask them to clarify or ask them specific questions about what they said

You will be so surprised to find that half the people you assume are being shitty or negative just didn't phrase what they meant very well

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@pluralistic I’ll add: Remember that lots of people interacting in English here are not writing or reading their native language. Sometimes dialectal variations or idioms “fly over our heads”, to use an example. If I’m making an extra effort to communicate with you, please grant me some space to edit and rephrase. You’re engaging with a global community, not everyone will get your local context — even if it’s the US.
@laescude @pluralistic I sometimes wish we had a brand new language for global communication instead of English.