@warkittens @Quinnae_Moon I’m also disabled, so I get the spoons thing. But that’s a major part of why a dogpile can drain me so badly even if it’s a battle I sort of got to choose. They don’t have to have even slightly good arguments if there are enough of them. They just have to have enough people leveraging dangerous rhetoric even very badly that it overwhelms you.
If the defense against people who have opinions on other people for a living is exhausted scientists with no time who aren’t even focused on that aspect of harm because it’s outside their purview, then I feel bad for the scientists, and I am worried about larger issues, but my much more immediate safety concerns have to come first. No one steps in to help us. They’re either not concerned with that issue, or they’re too close and it’s too risky to get involved. We’re all alone.
So no, I don’t think that more work for the sake of other people’s safety is too much to ask. If it’s impossible, that sucks a lot, but still no.