I like REAL people, so don’t introduce me to a version of you, you can’t maintain.
@Gigi_QueenOfNuttin Gigi that's how humans function, you will always meet the surface-level human, you need to get to know them more to have them slowly be comfortable enough around you to be themselves without fear of rejection or ridicule
@LetsBeFriendsAlready
Completely agree with you.
I hope for honesty from the beginning at the surface.
It takes me awhile to open up, although at least it's me.
@Gigi_QueenOfNuttin oh then i guess i miss understood you, I thought you were saying, I wish people would just be open and themselves from the beginning
@LetsBeFriendsAlready
That is what I was saying but being a human with muddld thinking I realize you're right, although honesty is the key word.
I can hope for that LoL
@Gigi_QueenOfNuttin we all love honesty, but there are different levels to it, there is straight up lies and deceit with the goal of getting close to you, and there is acting more you, energetic, happy, fun, to attract a friend, one is morally reprehensible and the other is honestly natural, you can’t expect someone to be a perfect version of themselves, they can only show you the best parts of them, which is exhausting, which is why they can’t hold it for long, but hopefully long enough to (1)

@LetsBeFriendsAlready

Well said, eloquently.
It is truly the nature of this human bonding game.

@Gigi_QueenOfNuttin long enough to attract you into their orbit and life, when you are close enough? The mask slips slowly as they grow more comfortable, while that perfect them is not there, its part of a greater whole that you are now close enough to see, if you don’t like it you can leave the orbit, if you like what you see you stay with them, i hope im making sense i jussst woke up
@LetsBeFriendsAlready
Perfect sense. I'm impressed.
@Gigi_QueenOfNuttin I guess just like a broken clock, a sleepy brain can be eloquent with their words once in a blue moon lol