when my wife starts work real early on a frozen sunday and i have to get out of the warm, cozy bed to drive her.

because sunday-morning busses aren't a thing where we live.

brrr

@tomasekeli
she never makes me do that

@chasecb it's either that or she's biking with a non-winter-prepared bike in -10C, or walking for an hour.

a small sacrifice on my part

@tomasekeli
I was making a bad joke intimating that I had sex with your wife recently. You are a good husband but in America we might call this "simping". Next you'll be carrying her over snow or puddles. Once in a while don't come home Sat night and keep her guessing. Being too nice doesn't work in every setting just putting that out there.

@chasecb yeah, fuck that shit. she's my wife, and I'm her husband. we do things for each other. I do things for everyone I love.

life is not transactional and certainly not adversarial. that would suck

@tomasekeli
It is both transactional and adversarial though sadly. If you did nothing for her she gone (and I think your wife has great empathy and moral compass really do like her). If you want to smoke dope and drink beer with the homeys and stay out late before brunch with her parents then will get in trouble. It's that simple. Do you communicate with any of her ex boyfriends?