Irving's Zoo@jarevaloadam @krrw Forgiveness isn't for the benefit of the other person. It's for one's own benefit. Holding a grudge gives the other person control over you.
KHAYRI R.R. WOULFE@Irvings_Zoo @jarevaloadam The context of this post refers to holocaust. And even if it was something else, I think it is kind of insensitive to be judging people based on their grudge or unwilling to forgive, just because they do not subscribe to your idealization of forgiveness.
@krrw @jarevaloadam Kindly show me where I judged anybody or anything. I made a simple statement of psychological fact. People can agree or disagree, and it's no skin off my butt either way. You're welcome to hang on to your grudge and let it destroy you if you're so inclined.
@Irvings_Zoo @jarevaloadam Well you just keep on doing it, and with poor language.