There’s nothing more cowardly to me than changing the pronouns in a song so you don’t sound gay.
@lenabee One of our #choir songs this season is a Duke Ellington medley that includes "Satin Doll." The arrangers "helpfully" re-pronouned everything for a treble chorus, because *obviously* everybody who sings it is going to be a heterosexual woman, right?
(Spoiler: my choir is Very Gay and also very much not only made up of women. We changed it back.)