@mattblaze I mean, you could try asking how people handle that issue, instead of just declaring, in your wisdom, that you know it's bad.
But that would be the kind and community-centered version, and fuck that entire concept, right?
Point of order: I don't care about his feelings on DMs; he doesn't understand them and that's obvious, but whatever. I care, and responded, only to his asshattery.
But as to how most people handle them here, turn them off for people you don't follow (it's in preferences) and then set them to show up in their own column. Simple and straightforward, you won't miss seeing them, you don't have to check anything extra.
Don't use them for sensitive conversations. Done.
@notafurry Thanks.
Additional details for those interested: the "columns" mentioned are only visible if you toggle the "Enable advanced web interface" option w/in preferences (and save before doing anything else).
Go back to home and you'll then see the columns.
In the end, I chose not to have an empty DM column just to inspect that I have no DMs that I don't want to read anyway. But I do prefer the columns, so it was worth the effort.