Regular communication is important in any relationship.
So, I guess that means not talking about #trans stuff for 7 months isn't the best idea... Hrmmf.
She already knows, of course. I'm just a coward who needs some therapy.
It is helpful to talk about it, other than just you tiny people on my computer screen. But it's been about 7 months since I have posted anywhere.
@Millie I spent all of my married life (granted only 18 months) not talking about it with her. It was like it was a forbidden topic any more. Then I couldn't contain my transness any more and I had to come out properly, at which point she demanded a divorce.
The key to this was that if we had talked, it would have been a bit painful at the beginning but we would have avoided the big nasty ugly breakup and friend loss.
Talking is good.
Millie
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