Whether you use the day to gather with family or grieve the ongoing sins of the past, I wish you a good day.

I have mixed feelings about this holiday. It is not a happy celebration for some. It's also one of the only holidays we have that's about gathering with family and food that isn't centered around religious traditions. It's one holiday where I can visit and don't have to sit through church.

Don't celebrate the genocidal settlers. Celebrate the good in your life.