@owenblacker For those who love hearing about elderly queer people getting married, also look up Terry Donahue and Pat Henschel. They met playing baseball in the 40s (in the league that inspired A League of Their Own) and have been together ever since. They married shortly before passing away when it became legal.

There is a documentary about them on Netflix called A Secret Love, it's worth watching to see them, but I'll warn people that it was made by a younger family member so there's a massive bias towards some unreasonable other family members and it's extremely the kind of documentary a straight person makes about queer people (almost all the focus on a dramatic coming out that isn't that dramatic and way less on the interesting parts like an elderly lesbian couple worrying about if they'll have to deal with homophobia in an assisted living community). Doesn't do them justice but it's still great listening to them talk.