@stavvers
I echo every sentiment
As a cis parent of a trans son, those last few paragraphs hit home. He opted to wait until he could access adult services & avoid the harm.
Social transition & willingness to learn were literal lifesavers.
At 17, his GP referred him & he's now in waiting list limbo. We'll likely go private for the same reason I went private when my gall bladder needed yeeting & had already caused sepsis - staying alive is a choice we're actively making.
@stavvers I ... what?
If it's a phase, how will they get through it if they don't wear the clothes?
Are wearing the clothes harming them? No? Then they don't need a medical intervention to stop them doing it!
I mean, it's probably not a phase. That's insulting and harmful by itself. But even if it was, this makes no sense...