We set an empty plate setting and glass of wine to give remembrance and thanks for family and friends who are no longer with the living ... and a second place setting for remembering the living who are simply not with us at the moment.
#ThanksgivingTraditions
This year more than ever the first "Thanksgiving" is not something we partake in.
https://www.npr.org/2021/11/25/1059212893/native-american-tribes-are-gathering-in-plymouth-to-mourn-on-thanksgiving
Native American tribes are gathering in Plymouth to mourn on Thanksgiving

Thursday's National Day of Mourning in Plymouth, Massachusetts, will honor Indigenous people who've suffered centuries of racism and mistreatment. It's the 52nd year the event has been observed.

NPR