some of the fear/hand-wringing for non-professional social users is the FOMO of not being on the "cool" or "cache" mastodon instance. for *non-pro* users, it will not matter nearly as much which instance you are on, especially since you can bounce later. advice: try to join multiple to secure your handle, then see what happens and trim the one(s) you don't like.
notice i typed *non-pro*. the impact of the "wrong" instance is real for people with large followings or the need to pay rent with it
notice i typed *non-pro*. the impact of the "wrong" instance is real for people with large followings or the need to pay rent with it