@CatherineRussell2 Before you send DMs on here, there apparently are a couple of things to be aware of (which I only learned about yesterday):
- server admins can view all of their server users' DMs
- if you @ a third user in a DM convo, that user is added to your DM conversation nvnad can see it all
I haven’t verified that information myself but trust the source, so maybe keep that in mind.