@thatjaneng 100% - I saw someone refer to Mastodon as heavily based on consent and I still really like that analogy. The moderation tools are in place that that you're really not forced to co-exist with anyone. So the onus is on everyone to make it a happy place to co-exist.
It has it's downsides for sure, the CW meta discourse being the most immediately apparent but it puts people in the frame of mind to try and solve problems at least.
@thatjaneng Yeaaah, I think in fairness those instances are largely talking about temporarily defederating and because they've observed a historical trend.
The big moves are scary but the ability to make the big moves is what forces people to work together. 🤷♂️ For better or worse, it's an interesting dynamic at least.
I think it'll shake out okay, folk who want smaller communities might defederate and others will leave the niche servers.
@thatjaneng Yep, definitely - have seen a few on Twitter already fatigued by this sort of thing on Mastodon.
That shaking out okay still feels important - if you're in a server that suffers mass defederation it's not a statement on you - you can wait and see and then bail and migrate your followers later afaik.
There are historical issues with my instance and I've seen a lot of folk worrying they've got to migrate. I've reviewed and made my decision about that and now I wait and see. 🤷♂️