Seems like the moderation on this instance hasn't been able to maintain the standards expected for federation with others. I'm assuming this is due to the large numbers of newcomers like me, not knowing any better, joining the biggest instance.

So to make sure I don't get defederated (and ease the load here by one) - where should I go next?

mastodon.me.uk looks good, but not taking new signups. There isn't a special interest group I particularly align with.

Suggestions...?