hmmm I wish I knew how to code, I would like to set up or join a server for gaymers, and the queer community in general  
@sonicwylde try searching for #gaymers. There's probably already an instance for it. No sense in reinventing the wheel. This place is huge.
@montileestormer I have done that :) there are some mentions but no actual servers, but I am still looking around