@midway @atomicpoet Therein lies the core problem, which isn't a technical problem really.
Encouraging people to go to small instances means expecting them to vet an increasingly large number of small instances for suitability. No amount of "welcome wagon" addresses that cognitive load, which will inevitably lead to consolidation into "big" instances. (When overwhelmed by options they don't understand, people will either follow consensus, or not choose at all. As you noted)
@midway @atomicpoet And the alternative (self-hosting) simply isn't viable for either scalability or accessibility.
It's objectively more difficult than "pick from a sea of instances run by who the fuck knows" for a vast majority of users, so it doesn't alleviate that cognitive load.
If somehow it *did* become easier, then you would have *too many* single-digit user instances, and the broader federated network would hit other scaling issues. (as others have called out in replies)
@Emiller42 @midway You do realize that the instance you're on is moderated by one really overworked dude who is struggling to maintain it, right?
Right now, it has 200K users and one moderator.
At least a self-hosted instance has 1 user and 1 moderator.
@atomicpoet @midway Sorry, evacuation of an experimental social media account wasn't top priority between actual work, holiday preparations, and having one of my dogs pass away last week.
But I'm sure you feel very superior with your little "gotcha" moment.
@Emiller42 @midway I've read your bio long, long ago.
Now I know how Google will probably sell their own Fediverse services.