I've only been on the #fediverse for what, three years? There is so much I love here--a cultural commitment to holding the helpful parts of social networking, while letting go of the extractive and exploitive.

We have refused to have our attention or our emotions harvested for corporate profit.

It's easier to "be" here.

As we hold onto that, may we also rise to the challenge of true inclusion.

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We must not use demands for Content Warnings, mental health, or cultural norms as ways of shutting down or silencing marginalized people who are joining as the bird site self-immolates.

Is there a lot of toxicity there? Yes.

Do BIPOC deserve to be heard in the fullness of their experiences? Yes.

There is no megacorp here to enforce a culture here. We must make it ourselves.

We have to do better now than we have in the past.

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@mike I feel like many issues with Content Warnings etc are similar to those I tend to run into, as an autistic person, with Codes Of Conduct: civility norms can both be readily weaponised against perceived outsiders *and* simultaneously fail to censure even overt aggressions if committed in an approved register.
And yet spaces where strangers interact probably require civility norms of some kind if we want participation from more than the most robust and hardened 🤷🏽‍♀️

@justanotheramy @mike

As with most customs, it depends how it is used, more than whether the custom itself is good or bad.

I follow people who might one moment post a nude, the next moment post a complex political argument, and then a silly joke or cat video.

I read some of their posts depending on my mood. That's the beauty of a CW, it helps me choose what I want at any given moment.

Like a hashtage or headline for an article.

@servingworlds @mike I suspect there is a little bit of the magic amulet effect at work, in which (some percentage of) people want to put something in place and then just not think about it again while it radiates its inate essence benevolently over the surroundings.
Which is not how community building works.
It is work, and requires ongoing intentionality.
These things are tools not solutions.
@justanotheramy @mike "Ongoing Intentionality" is my cover band name :)