The single, most consistent thing I've noticed again and again talking to / dating younger guys in their 20s is they NEVER ask personal questions. You ask them what music they like, they tell you, end of message, end of conversation. No "howabout you?" or "what do you like?"
And this is mostly guys who identify as bottoms!! You'd think they'd be eager to get to know what I like? There must be some kind of filter bubble around me that puts me in front of these self-centered dudes lol