@FireyRoxy I used to friends with someone who was trans ( online only ) never asked why and was always accepting I was told the story of why , people used to inbox me asking what was the story I never said what I knew , I had been trusted with the reason and further details which although I was never asked to keep private I did it's common decency to respect everyone and their personal story , everyone is a human being we should always be kind even if our stories are different .