Okay. I'm about ready to give up here. I parked my butt here in 2018. Was happy that I could communicate with my friends and now that people have a beef with social I can't communicate or find any of my friends anymore.

And people are being all "that's what you get for joining social" in some spaces.

And "If you xyz you don't like neurodivergent people"

I am neurodivergent people. I haven't found a place that fits me.

And now my RSD has been tripped because of this. The birdsite, which is being torn apart, is abandoned by a friend that I CAN BARELY GET IN TOUCH WITH NOW. Like.

I'm afraid that if I hop I'll end up somewhere too lackadaisical and be cut off from friends too.

I'm really upset.

Do any of my friends have a small, chill server not blocked by fandom.ink and mastodon.art that I can port over to? I need a place. I don't want to have to jump through hoops. I'm tired.
@artyewok This petty behavior on their part is hurting people and I'm downright angry about it.
@artyewok I hang my shingle on wandering.shop personally... I don't know about fandom.ink but I have seen posts from mastodon.art .
@Tuftears oooo. I like the look of that one. Just the right amount of rules. I'm going to bed now, but I may ask for an invite code if you can get me one sometime.
@artyewok Invite codes seem to be limited to 50 at a time due to the influx of people from That Place, so I'll DM you if I see a new invite code go by!
@Tuftears I have an offer for another home that I think will work out so I should be okay!
@artyewok Okay! Be sure to meow so I know where to look for you next. ^.^