Ik zucht tegen mijn moeder aan de telefoon dat ik al acht weken niet gesport heb omdat ik dag en nacht aan mijn laptop zit en ik niet uit de spiraal geraak, zij, deadass: “ja sinds ik in de rolstoel zit ben ik ook bijgekomen. Twee kilo op zes weken”

STEL U VOOR GE ZIT IN EEN ROLSTOEL OMDAT UW REUMA EN OSTEOPOROSE TE ERG WORDT EN ZELFS DAN NOG ZIJT GE BEZIT MET DE WEEGSCHAAL

@FakePlasticRuby some times it's better to annoye one self with things that do not matter. Things you do have control over and understand.
- I am happy my mum always did that after what happened, and she's better for it.
@julienlanoo Ah she’s also just a product of her mum of course, but it’s infuriating to see all the work I have to do to undo generations of… shit.

@FakePlasticRuby mhm,
You know, if the body doesn't want to, it's a huge source of frustration, but mums do not show...

It's mostly a coping mechanism, a way to feel "normal" all fine. This chatter. I would play along.

I learned form a nurse, caring for my mum,: the conclusion there is no conclusion, is also a conclusion.

@julienlanoo yeah now that I’m in my thirties I just let her talk but I’ve internalized a LOT of her diet talk as a child. How she didn’t eat bread because she was “too fat”. How she didn’t need some of the tv blanket because “she was fat enough not to feel cold”. Believe me - it’s super damaging to hear that as a child. I haven’t eaten a croissant for fifteen years because of it, for example.
@FakePlasticRuby want some good adress to rectify that " no croissant" thing... ;)
@julienlanoo oh I have made up for those fifteen years already believe me ;) but tips are always welcome!

@FakePlasticRuby Boulangerie Utopie Rue Jean-Pierre Timbaud, 11ieme Paris.

And if you keep to the Parisian
-lady uniform and code of conduct, chances are 0grams will be added, however many you eat... ( - that was a Joke) ...