@dropbear I’m definitely a somebody, and I bring a lot of good to the world; I like myself (these days) and am no longer surprised when someone likes me back.
At the same time, as I am more exposed to the broader world, I meet people I truly look up to (and not just because I’m short 😁), and as a result I’m both getting better than I’ve ever been AND at the same time am less impressed with myself
I agree that defeatist language isn’t helpful and can be harmful, but also get that it may be for some true modesty, potentially in-artfully expressed.
If after reading my thoughts you think I missed your point, please do say so. I wrestle with this and appreciate the discussion.
My partner tells me that if I was 5 foot I'd be a real person. 😂